*organizes life at 3am*
FL | 18 | otown
Men dropping women because they have sex “too soon” is a complete myth. They drop you because all they ever wanted is sex, they reached their goal, and now they’re moving on. You can tell by the fact that they obviously pursued having sex with you.
It has nothing to do with “self-respect” or “ladylike” behaviour. Have sex whenever you feel comfortable, on the first date or after you’re married, but don’t let anyone tell you that you being sexual is the reason you’re undesirable or you’re not in a relationship. If you feel safe and comfortable engaging in sex, there’s no reason you need to hold back and if you get dumped afterwards, it’s because you’ve been pursued by a manipulative piece of shit.
That’s when it’s the best